Episode 4

04. Five Things You Should Not Say (or Do) to Recruiters

Ever said something to a recruiter that seemed totally fine… but then everything went quiet? In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 common things candidates say or do that can seriously hurt your chances — and what to do instead.

  • Why saying “Can you send my CV everywhere?” is a red flag for recruiters
  • The real impact of ghosting during the hiring process (and what to do instead)
  • Why “I’m open to anything” isn’t as helpful as you think
  • The problem with asking for the company name too early
  • How badmouthing past employers or recruiters can come back to haunt you
  • What recruiters actually do — and why we can’t “find you a job”
  • Practical ways to build better relationships with recruiters who can help your career

If you’re an expat in the Netherlands or Europe trying to land a new role or make a career shift, this episode will give you honest, practical advice from a recruiter who gets what you're going through.

P.S. If you’re figuring out your next step, I created a free Ikigai workbook to help you get clarity - just drop me a message or grab it from the link.

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About the Podcast

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The Mindset Recruiter Show
Job search advice, recruiter secrets, and mindset shifts - from an expat recruiter in the Netherlands.

About your host

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Davide Puleri

I am an Italian Recruiter living in the Netherlands. I work for a recruitment agency in Amsterdam and I am the host of The Mindset Recruiter Show, where I share job tips combined with some mindset tools for expats like me.

I’m not just a Recruiter, outside of work, I’m a normal guy who loves music, singing, baking healthy treats, travelling, and staying active through fitness. These things keep me balanced, especially when life gets hectic.

This podcast is not about being perfect, but it’s about growing together, step by step, through real conversations and some nice practical advice.